Thursday, 20 January 2011
Sunday, 16 January 2011
Thursday, 13 January 2011
Trio in London

Just a short note to inform you that I met Nimisha and Madhulika for drinks (at a bar) dinner (at an italian chain restaurant called Strada on the South Bank) and finally for coffee (at Waterloo station)...

we wandered from location to location on a bitter winter night, (7th December) and it was surprisingly a delightful evening despite the fact that the girls hadn't met since school and I had met both of them a grand total of TWICE in the last 35 years.
Nimisha was brought up-to-date about the reunion by Madhu and myself and it was just amazing how three people who barely knew each other could be so relaxed and informal in each other's company!
Another indictment of how strong the bonds of our schooldays really are! ...Behram.
Saturday, 8 January 2011
The first birthday of the year!
Sending warm wishes your way from around the globe and look forward to seeing you in Mumbai.
- from all your classmates
Thursday, 6 January 2011
Friday, 31 December 2010
Special Moments at BF
Saturday, 25 December 2010
Thursday, 16 December 2010
The band rocks on!
Padman last seen in Singapore buying a 12 string electric fender stratacaster...
Neville reported to have indulged in a new mapex m series drum set and his family is in a state of shock...
and yours truly has dusted off his electric fender stratocaster and taylor electro-acoustic guitars...
Catch Paddy and Neville at Opus in bangalore, dates to be announced!
Please send in your comments about special moments and surprises from the reunion.
More memories to follow, stay tuned.




Tuesday, 30 November 2010
Yearbook: Errata & Addendum

Saturday, 27 November 2010
Kyaa masti...
Friday, 26 November 2010
A league of Bombay's Best
Wednesday, 24 November 2010
Social Initiatives - A Proposal
POSSIBLE GUIDELINES
The target group should be people who are physically/mentally/
The initiative should be such that anyone from our batch who wants to get involved can do so. Those from our batch who have the time(or are motivated to make time) can get personally involved. Those who can't should be able to contribute by way of their finances and contacts if they are so inclined.
While there is a big vision in the minds of the core team we start small and aim to show a tangible result within a reasonable time. This would motivate more people to get involved. We can also consolidate our learning to decide on how to best to move forward based on the experience.
We start with one single initiative and work in a focused way rather than dissipate our resources on multiple initiatives. We should consider the sustainability factor while deciding on the initaitive - unless it is a limited period specific objective project.
Regular communication to the class members (at least once in a quarter) to sustain a sense of involvement and keep them informed. Also to motivate more of them to get involved. Photos should be used to highlight what is happening and the physical involvement of class members.
One of the goals could be to aim to be a model of excellence in service so that other Cathedral batches would want to emulate us. Our efforts would then have a multiplier effect.
POSSIBLE INITIATIVES
We could look at an initiative that develops skills or is involved in Counseling and meeting the problems of children below 5 that are manifested in their behavior. This is something I have been thinking of for a long time. I understand that most of a child's make-up is set by the age of five. Resolving issues at this stage is much easier. With the passing of years it becomes increasingly difficult - though not impossible.
Suketu Doshi's wife who is running a school of about 125 children shared her concerns about the difficulties faced by children in this age group when we had a chat at Viks place last Friday.
We could take a batch of 6 to 12 underprivileged youngsters with potential for growth in a specific area and groom them to become independent, self-supporting adults who are contributing to society.
For example, using Manju's talents, a batch of girls from the slums could be developed to become Fitness Trainers. Probably we would need to give them training in other areas like English speaking, social etiquette etc.
What would be more satisfying than a couple of years down the line having them present at one of our get-togethers - performing and then sharing with the class how we have played a role in transforming their lives. How they have moved from living in the slums to living in a flat whose loan instalments are being paid from their own earnings.
They and their children living with dignity instead of in an environment of filth, poverty and physical/sexual/emotional abuse.
Sharad Kanga
Monday, 22 November 2010
Mr. Pande: RIP
Saturday, 20 November 2010
Turf Club Fiasco
Friday, 19 November 2010
State of the Reunion

Tuesday, 16 November 2010
The Ice-Breaker
Sunday, 14 November 2010
Wednesday, 10 November 2010
Tuesday, 9 November 2010
Place your orders!
A rather complicated procedure has been put in place by the school to procure copies of this book, such as advance orders to be placed at school along with only cash payment; and books to be collected at Turf Club on 13th etc etc.
Our good friend, Cyrus Shroff, has extended himself and spent all day trying to figure how best we could make it available to all our classmates from out of Bombay. Please see his mail below and write to him immediately, should you be interested in getting your copy.
Thanks Cyrus, on behalf of the Class of 73… for coming forward so spontaneously, to help with this and your generous offer with the courier. Much appreciated!
Jo
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Hi Folks,
1. You can send me an email or call no later than 10.00 am IST on Friday 12th November. I will confirm individually by return email/SMS.
2. I will go and pay for XX no. of copies at the school office in my name based on response. There is no receipt being issued at the time of making payment so I guess there is some sign-off or trust factor involved.
3. Will report status at Viks’ place on 12th on what has happened so far. People who have registered can pay me on the 12th, 13th or 14th.
5. At the Turf Club on 13th will assist at the booth/stall (for the price of a small drink) for our long lost buddies to get the book for whoever has their names with me. In case of insufficient copies available at the Turf Club I will pick up and post/courier and that tab is on me.
6. For people who are not attending, but would still like the book, I will post/courier as soon as I receive copies, ditto again on the expenses. As long as books are available at the school office, I will pick them up and work out individually how the reimbursement will take place. They will have to be patient but it will be done. Cheers,
Cyrus
Monday, 8 November 2010
Himalayan Trek '72
Sunday, 7 November 2010
Let the good times roll

Here's the latest stats on our way to success:
- Over 100+ coming to the BF party on 14 Nov including our one and only Stanford professor from calif, investment guru from Boston, cancer specialist from NYC, research scientist from Hyderabad, entrepreneur from Bangalore, hoteliers from Delhi, the docs from NH, UK, Canada...
- Revival of the Band who plan to rocknroll for one sold-out peformaance only!
- Almost 50+ (no reference to age) kicking off the tamasha at Viks' on 12 Nov for the ice-breaker and home-coming reception party
- Half-a-dozen class tables at the formal turf club school dinner on 13 Nov
7 p.m. Guests arrive
7.30 p.m. welcome by Master of Ceremonies
Address by Principal Meera Isaacs
Film on 150 yrs of the school
Audio-visual of the Stamp release
8. p.m. Book launch
8.30 p.m. Cocktails and dinner
Friday, 5 November 2010
Girls' Prefects Solemn Induction
Thursday, 4 November 2010
Monday, 1 November 2010
Take a deep breath...
Some were skeptical about being able to pull this off - "aare yaar, no one will want to come so far and spend the money" or "I'll come if she comes" was the usual story. Some were in shock that we had tracked them down; some were struggling to remember all the names posted on the blog. Others - who shall remain anonymous - who aren't coming are trying to juggle the same balls we all have in the air - kids, jobs, spouses, daily grind, and reality. But hey, we haven't seen each other in 37 years this mela of almost 100 of our classmates together in one place is not going to happen again. Ever. And so I wouldn't miss our reunion for the world.
The diet probably won't work. At first the reunion seemed impossibly far away and plenty of time to go on a diet. When confronted with a slice of double chocolate cheesecake, you will have a hard time holding between you and the plate the picture of your high-school sweetheart. Maybe she or he has gotten plump, you think hopefully. As the weeks have suddenly shrink, and you don't, a kind of passive resistance sets in.
This is me, you tell yourself defensively. I've finally found myself. I know who I am. No problems of self-identity here. And I don't look bad either, especially not from this angle, if I stand with my shoulders back. If I don't get on the scale, you tell yourself, nobody will have to know. Maybe five years from now, for our next reunion. . . the moral is: diet, or don't diet.
Decide: what are you going to wear? This has nothing to do with the weather, hot or humid, or rainy. No, this has to do with image. What kind of person do you want your old classmates to think you have become? Glamorous in leather jeans and spaghetti-strap top? Domestic in madras wraparound skirt? Businesslike in dark blue that noone will notice? Funky in bright green sweater studded with rhinestones? Maybe what you wear will say something about who you have become. . . or will noone really care? Do you really care?
Wear a tie and chances are you'll take it off. Wear jeans and go barefoot and you may still hold on to those good old days. Wear a halter and you may have to hold on to it! The trick is to look comfortable, feel comfortable, something you can relax in just in case you get the jitters and sweat a lot.
Stay cool, collected, calm. Smile. A lot.
Pull out your high-school photos and memorize them. The class picture, the '73 "cock-house" shoot (it was Palmer House!) - all these help. The next best thing is to close your eyes, turn back the clock, remember those magic moments, and the faces that went them, and their names. It helped, especially in planning this reunion, and in beginning to track down people, creating a list of names. Amazingly, with your help, we actually a confirmed list of over one hundred names coming for the grand November weekend and over 140 names across the four classes! Now if we can just find them all . . . How will we recognize anyone? Will you remember the names? Staring at a picture of a familiar face long forgotten, I tried to recall how long we had known each other. There are several names and faces that I've known since first grade - over 40 years ago! Were we in the same class? Didn't we dance together at the social? Some names brought back blurred or buried memories. Long ago emotions sweep over me like dark waves from a hidden sea.
What will we talk about? Our lives. What had we done with them so far? What did we still hope to do? Maybe you need to decide what to tell about yourself. That means you have to know what is important. Not just bare facts. I'm a teacher, I'm a mom, I'm going back to school, I got divorced, I never married, I'm still searching, when I grow up I will. . . , my kids are in school. Yeah, right, and you also have to know how you feel about yourself and your life. Sooner or later, someone will ask you: so, are you happy? Well, life has been interesting, complex, hiccups here and there, diversions. . . life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans, na?
What surprises me about you, my friends, is how easy it is most times to talk to one another and connect and pick up from where we left off oh so long ago when life was simpler and sweeter and infinitely less complicated. After years of separation and silence and distance, we come together with intense curiosity, and probably talk less about careers than about changing relationships with lovers, spouses, children, parents. Who remembers whom. Where is so-and-so. What is happening in Mumbai? How life has taken us by the hand and led us there. Mostly we want to know how we all have struggled, together and apart, how we've survived, and what we've learned. At our reunion, we learn to summarize our lives.
So take photographs, lots of them - and bring your camera. You'll want to hold on to these photographs and memories. This is history - yours and mine. For some, it's the stuff that dreams are made of. Also bring pictures with you. This is not for the reason you think. You won't need to flash snapshots of your significant other or your home on the range though this helps. Sometimes you might need to glance at these pictures to remind yourself that you do have another life back home. A few hours into the reunion and you're caught up with former alliances, emotional entanglements, uncertain friendships, and I'm fifteen and vulnerable again. I wonder if I will ever hear from him or her again.
I worry if my friends are having a good time, is anyone feeling left out? You temporarily forget that any other place exists; all that matters is old friends, shared memories, lost opportunities, and the strangeness of parting again. In the bright sunshine, the years melt away.
When you return home, you can hardly remember you ever if you ever left in the first place. You lay down and rewind and rehearse and play back the movie, the soundtrack, the emotions. You can smell the old familiar smells, feel the old familiar pain, the tugging at the heartstrings. During the long seasons of growing up, we usually laid back and remembered, as we do now, best friends, first loves, broken hearts, and the others, who said what to whom, what they thought of you, what I secretly thought of them, what I am thinking of them now.
Maybe the only way really to prepare for your high-school reunion is to give yourself plenty of credit for the intervening years. Write your own report card, the kind you always deserved, with the grades: 5 for generally satisfied, E for extraordinary, I for improvement, B for the best that you could do, Inc for incomplete because it's not over yet. Keep this hidden in your mental pocket, next to your pictures, and then, when the reunion is over, hang on to your report card, smile at everyone, promise to keep in touch, and go home. Happy in the warm afterglow of friends and a new found treasure of memories.
-rm
Friday, 29 October 2010
President of India Speech on Cathedral Stamp Issue
Mumbai , October 27,2010 19:13 IST
Dear students, Ladies and Gentlemen,
I am very happy to be here to commemorate the 150th anniversary of the Cathedral and John Connon School, and to release a commemorative postage stamp on this occasion. I convey my warm greetings to all teachers, students, alumni, staff, management and all those associated with this reputed educational institution. The school was pioneered and funded by a city philanthropist, barrister and editor, John Connon and posthumously, named after him. This school and the city of Mumbai through a Century and a half, have shared a history of remarkable growth. I wish the school many, many more years of success and excellence in the field of education.
Education is one of the most potent instruments for empowering a population, and therefore, rightly education is a priority sector for any nation. As has been famously said, without education one is like a ship without compass, with no way of knowing how near the harbour is. An effective education system is one that prepares the youth to navigate the journey of life meaningfully. Schools constitute the basic pillars of an education edifice of a nation. Hence, the stronger a system of school education, greater the prospects of progress of a country. Therefore, it is very necessary for schools to impart good education and make students understand the worthiness of discipline, integrity and doing their work with dedication.
As our country is developing and moving towards becoming one of the leading nations of the world, it would need in large measure, the energy, drive and contribution of its people. Every generation looks to its youth with expectation and hope. You are the new generation that can take India to its destiny of a developed nation and for this, I believe your holistic development must receive foremost attention.
Dear Students, the time that you spend in school, which are your formative years, is valuable. It is here, that your first friendships are formed and as you learn about sharing, you develop a sense of camaraderie. It is here, that the process of imparting knowledge begins, and children acquire skills and values, that will help them in fulfilling responsibilities towards families, society and the nation. You begin with learning alphabets and numbers and through the years in school, get an understanding about a range of subjects. By the time you leave school you are ready to look at options for your future career. Hence, you must use your time in school to learn as much as possible. You should develop a habit of reading, not only textbooks, but also newspapers and literature.
India is a storehouse of knowledge. I would encourage you to learn about the diversity of our country in culture, languages, customs, ethos and traditions. It is this richness and multiplicity, which makes India a unique and a great nation of the world. Moreover, we are a democratic nation, in fact the world's largest democratic nation. The students, representing the coming generation, must avoid narrow creeds and seek to build a path for the betterment of society.
Your objective should be to become intellectually competent and technically skilled - your talents are required by the nation. Young students and the youth of the country, therefore, must channelize their skills in developing balanced personalities with positive attitudes. You should participate in sports and other extra-curricular activities, as you are doing. Playing, as a member of a team, develops the ability to work with others to achieve targets and goals. It is sports that can teach you to put in your best and to accept both victory and defeat in the true spirit of a sportsperson.
Like our nation, we must also respect our planet Earth. Nature has been generous to us. Mountains, deserts, valleys, rivers, oceans and forests are important habitats that support ecosystems with diverse life forms. For example, forests host a wide range of fauna and flora, providing us a wide range of products and also giving green coverage. We should teach our children to respect nature for our own good. We must sensibly use its resources, work to conserve its rich flora and fauna, as well as adopt environment friendly approaches.
Teachers have a great responsibility as they create citizens of the future, conscious of their duties towards the nation, the planet and fellow human beings. You should encourage growth, foster a spirit of exploration and discovery, and construct a strong sense of integrity, compassion and generosity. I urge all the teachers present here to promote high moral and cultural values among our children.
I am told that the Cathedral and John Connon School has been promoting quality education with focus on the core values of integrity and responsibility. Its staff and its teachers have demonstrated deep dedication to the development of their students. Teachers must interact with the parents of the students. This dialogue on the various aspects of the welfare of the students, can contribute immensely to their improvement. I am glad that this school has a supportive Parent Teacher Association.
The Cathedral and John Connon School has since its inception worked to provide an atmosphere for academic excellence, as well as encourage sports and extra-curricular activities for promoting the overall development of its students. The reputation of any educational institutions is measured through the success and talent exhibited by its students and alumni. This school has been the alma mater of Industrialist JRD Tata - Bharat Ratna awardee and Scientist Dr. Homi Bhabha, men who have been among the distinguished citizens of this country. In addition, a number of alumni have rendered service to the nation and have achieved distinction in various fields. Students of the school have gone to many parts of the world and carried with them the values learnt in school of putting service before self and made their mark, ever conscious of lessons learnt here. I know some of the old boys of the school who were very keen to invite me here - Avinash Naik and Niranjan Naik are among them.
I conclude by conveying my good wishes, once again, to all - the Principal, Mrs. Meera Isaacs, who is the first lady principal of the school, the teachers, students, staff, management and all those associated with this great institution. I wish the school all success and hope it reaches Olympian heights.
Thank You. Jai Hind!
Thursday, 28 October 2010
An Undefiled Heritage
Tuesday, 26 October 2010
Reunion Weekend Schedule
From the CATS Alumni:
Dear Cathedral Alumnus,
We are delighted to inform you that we now have all the information you need to have a marvelous 150th Founders’ Day week.
School Play – 9th and 10th November 2010: The School Play will be held at the Tata Theatre on November 9th and 10th. (No details as yet :(
Note: The play and Celebratory Dinner are being organized by the School (not the Alumni Association) and will post info as soon as we have more details about these events.
“Back to School” – 10th November 2010: To kick start this exciting week, the Alumni Association will have a fun-filled “social” at the Olive Bar and Kitchen at Mahalaxmi from 8.30 p.m. onwards. Olive is exclusively for us, but, of course, you can bring your partner or your old school flame. Entry is free and you pay for whatever you consume. The O.live Opus Jukeboxers will bring you a ‘retro’ evening of over 400 hits, across genres and decades, on demand, performed live by some of the best voices around. All you need to do is find yourself a seat, order a drink, some food and request as many songs as you like.
Cricket Festival – 12th November 2010: The Alumni Association is organizing a seven- a-side cricket festival with the alumni and school at the Police Gymkhana, Marine Drive from six p.m. onwards. Contact Sanjay Shah, ’82, on 98210 15871 for registration. The evening will be full of cricket, music and great food. Bring your schoolmates and cheer your side.
Golf Tournament – 13th November 2010: A gala golf tournament is being organized at the Willingdon Club beginning at 8.00 a.m. on this Saturday morning. Plenty of prizes. Register early to avoid disappointment. For registration please click here or contact Akshay Kilachand ’87 at 9821027000.
Celebratory Dinner – 13th November 2010: The School is organizing a dinner marking the culmination of a year full of events to celebrate turning 150. This will be held at the Turf Club, Mahalaxmi, Enclosures 1 and 2, at 7 p.m. Donor passes and table bookings are available at the Senior School from October 26th, onwards between 10 a.m. and 2.30 p.m. We look forward to alumni from every corner of the globe joining us to celebrate this historic event. A coffee table book on the History of the School will also be launched that evening.
(NOTE: Those requiring tickets to the turf club dinner - which is Rs 3500 - please notify Mr. Rungta via email ASAP! For the out-of-towners, we are reserving a couple of tables).
Church Service – 14th November 2010: There will be an evening Church Service at St. Thomas’ Cathedral at 5.30 p.m. This will be followed by a high tea in the Senior School.
The idea of this e-mail is to inform you in advance so that you can plan your lives around these events.
We really look forward to seeing you at the above celebrations. Let’s make this 150th year, one to remember!
Please do visit the alumni website – www.catalumni.com for regular updates.
Shyla Boga Patel and Viral Doshi
Co-Presidents
P.S. Remember - the most important event for the Class of 1973 event is at BF :) It will rock!
Sunday, 24 October 2010
Friday, 22 October 2010
Wednesday, 20 October 2010
Straight from the heart
What a wonderful trip this was to Mumbai - on day 2 I called Rupande and within an hour Rashmi, Rupande and I were at the Crossroads Coffee Shop, no small talk, just do you remember amongst giggles and laughter.
The following Sunday the Merchant of Singapore (Ronita's nom de plume for Rajeev) had remotely persuaded Vik Ahuja to host a lavish lunch where the out-of-towners - Rajeev, Nina and I were made to feel very welcome. Behram had us all in stitches with his fictional anecdotes. Rajeev was the envy of the guys with his 6-pack and constant messages from all his flames. Thanks again, Viks!
The following Saturday, my last day in Mumbai, was a continuation of the trip down memory lane. This time it was a Ladies Only Luncheon hosted by a very gracious Rashmi. There was a lot of rewinding to the seventies and then fast-forwarding to the present. The pics say it all...
Rashmi, Jo, Geetu
Nina and Rupande
Annahita and Nina
Rashmi, Nina, Divyaa
Tiku, Rupande, GeetuMy heart will be in Mumbai on the Mother of all Weekends.
Have a tequila shot on me...
- Nimisha






























