
Tuesday, 30 November 2010
Yearbook: Errata & Addendum

Saturday, 27 November 2010
Kyaa masti...
Friday, 26 November 2010
A league of Bombay's Best
Wednesday, 24 November 2010
Social Initiatives - A Proposal
POSSIBLE GUIDELINES
The target group should be people who are physically/mentally/
The initiative should be such that anyone from our batch who wants to get involved can do so. Those from our batch who have the time(or are motivated to make time) can get personally involved. Those who can't should be able to contribute by way of their finances and contacts if they are so inclined.
While there is a big vision in the minds of the core team we start small and aim to show a tangible result within a reasonable time. This would motivate more people to get involved. We can also consolidate our learning to decide on how to best to move forward based on the experience.
We start with one single initiative and work in a focused way rather than dissipate our resources on multiple initiatives. We should consider the sustainability factor while deciding on the initaitive - unless it is a limited period specific objective project.
Regular communication to the class members (at least once in a quarter) to sustain a sense of involvement and keep them informed. Also to motivate more of them to get involved. Photos should be used to highlight what is happening and the physical involvement of class members.
One of the goals could be to aim to be a model of excellence in service so that other Cathedral batches would want to emulate us. Our efforts would then have a multiplier effect.
POSSIBLE INITIATIVES
We could look at an initiative that develops skills or is involved in Counseling and meeting the problems of children below 5 that are manifested in their behavior. This is something I have been thinking of for a long time. I understand that most of a child's make-up is set by the age of five. Resolving issues at this stage is much easier. With the passing of years it becomes increasingly difficult - though not impossible.
Suketu Doshi's wife who is running a school of about 125 children shared her concerns about the difficulties faced by children in this age group when we had a chat at Viks place last Friday.
We could take a batch of 6 to 12 underprivileged youngsters with potential for growth in a specific area and groom them to become independent, self-supporting adults who are contributing to society.
For example, using Manju's talents, a batch of girls from the slums could be developed to become Fitness Trainers. Probably we would need to give them training in other areas like English speaking, social etiquette etc.
What would be more satisfying than a couple of years down the line having them present at one of our get-togethers - performing and then sharing with the class how we have played a role in transforming their lives. How they have moved from living in the slums to living in a flat whose loan instalments are being paid from their own earnings.
They and their children living with dignity instead of in an environment of filth, poverty and physical/sexual/emotional abuse.
Sharad Kanga
Monday, 22 November 2010
Mr. Pande: RIP
Saturday, 20 November 2010
Turf Club Fiasco
Friday, 19 November 2010
State of the Reunion

Tuesday, 16 November 2010
The Ice-Breaker
Sunday, 14 November 2010
Wednesday, 10 November 2010
Tuesday, 9 November 2010
Place your orders!
A rather complicated procedure has been put in place by the school to procure copies of this book, such as advance orders to be placed at school along with only cash payment; and books to be collected at Turf Club on 13th etc etc.
Our good friend, Cyrus Shroff, has extended himself and spent all day trying to figure how best we could make it available to all our classmates from out of Bombay. Please see his mail below and write to him immediately, should you be interested in getting your copy.
Thanks Cyrus, on behalf of the Class of 73… for coming forward so spontaneously, to help with this and your generous offer with the courier. Much appreciated!
Jo
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Hi Folks,
1. You can send me an email or call no later than 10.00 am IST on Friday 12th November. I will confirm individually by return email/SMS.
2. I will go and pay for XX no. of copies at the school office in my name based on response. There is no receipt being issued at the time of making payment so I guess there is some sign-off or trust factor involved.
3. Will report status at Viks’ place on 12th on what has happened so far. People who have registered can pay me on the 12th, 13th or 14th.
5. At the Turf Club on 13th will assist at the booth/stall (for the price of a small drink) for our long lost buddies to get the book for whoever has their names with me. In case of insufficient copies available at the Turf Club I will pick up and post/courier and that tab is on me.
6. For people who are not attending, but would still like the book, I will post/courier as soon as I receive copies, ditto again on the expenses. As long as books are available at the school office, I will pick them up and work out individually how the reimbursement will take place. They will have to be patient but it will be done. Cheers,
Cyrus
Monday, 8 November 2010
Himalayan Trek '72
Sunday, 7 November 2010
Let the good times roll

Here's the latest stats on our way to success:
- Over 100+ coming to the BF party on 14 Nov including our one and only Stanford professor from calif, investment guru from Boston, cancer specialist from NYC, research scientist from Hyderabad, entrepreneur from Bangalore, hoteliers from Delhi, the docs from NH, UK, Canada...
- Revival of the Band who plan to rocknroll for one sold-out peformaance only!
- Almost 50+ (no reference to age) kicking off the tamasha at Viks' on 12 Nov for the ice-breaker and home-coming reception party
- Half-a-dozen class tables at the formal turf club school dinner on 13 Nov
7 p.m. Guests arrive
7.30 p.m. welcome by Master of Ceremonies
Address by Principal Meera Isaacs
Film on 150 yrs of the school
Audio-visual of the Stamp release
8. p.m. Book launch
8.30 p.m. Cocktails and dinner
Friday, 5 November 2010
Girls' Prefects Solemn Induction
Thursday, 4 November 2010
Monday, 1 November 2010
Take a deep breath...
Some were skeptical about being able to pull this off - "aare yaar, no one will want to come so far and spend the money" or "I'll come if she comes" was the usual story. Some were in shock that we had tracked them down; some were struggling to remember all the names posted on the blog. Others - who shall remain anonymous - who aren't coming are trying to juggle the same balls we all have in the air - kids, jobs, spouses, daily grind, and reality. But hey, we haven't seen each other in 37 years this mela of almost 100 of our classmates together in one place is not going to happen again. Ever. And so I wouldn't miss our reunion for the world.
The diet probably won't work. At first the reunion seemed impossibly far away and plenty of time to go on a diet. When confronted with a slice of double chocolate cheesecake, you will have a hard time holding between you and the plate the picture of your high-school sweetheart. Maybe she or he has gotten plump, you think hopefully. As the weeks have suddenly shrink, and you don't, a kind of passive resistance sets in.
This is me, you tell yourself defensively. I've finally found myself. I know who I am. No problems of self-identity here. And I don't look bad either, especially not from this angle, if I stand with my shoulders back. If I don't get on the scale, you tell yourself, nobody will have to know. Maybe five years from now, for our next reunion. . . the moral is: diet, or don't diet.
Decide: what are you going to wear? This has nothing to do with the weather, hot or humid, or rainy. No, this has to do with image. What kind of person do you want your old classmates to think you have become? Glamorous in leather jeans and spaghetti-strap top? Domestic in madras wraparound skirt? Businesslike in dark blue that noone will notice? Funky in bright green sweater studded with rhinestones? Maybe what you wear will say something about who you have become. . . or will noone really care? Do you really care?
Wear a tie and chances are you'll take it off. Wear jeans and go barefoot and you may still hold on to those good old days. Wear a halter and you may have to hold on to it! The trick is to look comfortable, feel comfortable, something you can relax in just in case you get the jitters and sweat a lot.
Stay cool, collected, calm. Smile. A lot.
Pull out your high-school photos and memorize them. The class picture, the '73 "cock-house" shoot (it was Palmer House!) - all these help. The next best thing is to close your eyes, turn back the clock, remember those magic moments, and the faces that went them, and their names. It helped, especially in planning this reunion, and in beginning to track down people, creating a list of names. Amazingly, with your help, we actually a confirmed list of over one hundred names coming for the grand November weekend and over 140 names across the four classes! Now if we can just find them all . . . How will we recognize anyone? Will you remember the names? Staring at a picture of a familiar face long forgotten, I tried to recall how long we had known each other. There are several names and faces that I've known since first grade - over 40 years ago! Were we in the same class? Didn't we dance together at the social? Some names brought back blurred or buried memories. Long ago emotions sweep over me like dark waves from a hidden sea.
What will we talk about? Our lives. What had we done with them so far? What did we still hope to do? Maybe you need to decide what to tell about yourself. That means you have to know what is important. Not just bare facts. I'm a teacher, I'm a mom, I'm going back to school, I got divorced, I never married, I'm still searching, when I grow up I will. . . , my kids are in school. Yeah, right, and you also have to know how you feel about yourself and your life. Sooner or later, someone will ask you: so, are you happy? Well, life has been interesting, complex, hiccups here and there, diversions. . . life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans, na?
What surprises me about you, my friends, is how easy it is most times to talk to one another and connect and pick up from where we left off oh so long ago when life was simpler and sweeter and infinitely less complicated. After years of separation and silence and distance, we come together with intense curiosity, and probably talk less about careers than about changing relationships with lovers, spouses, children, parents. Who remembers whom. Where is so-and-so. What is happening in Mumbai? How life has taken us by the hand and led us there. Mostly we want to know how we all have struggled, together and apart, how we've survived, and what we've learned. At our reunion, we learn to summarize our lives.
So take photographs, lots of them - and bring your camera. You'll want to hold on to these photographs and memories. This is history - yours and mine. For some, it's the stuff that dreams are made of. Also bring pictures with you. This is not for the reason you think. You won't need to flash snapshots of your significant other or your home on the range though this helps. Sometimes you might need to glance at these pictures to remind yourself that you do have another life back home. A few hours into the reunion and you're caught up with former alliances, emotional entanglements, uncertain friendships, and I'm fifteen and vulnerable again. I wonder if I will ever hear from him or her again.
I worry if my friends are having a good time, is anyone feeling left out? You temporarily forget that any other place exists; all that matters is old friends, shared memories, lost opportunities, and the strangeness of parting again. In the bright sunshine, the years melt away.
When you return home, you can hardly remember you ever if you ever left in the first place. You lay down and rewind and rehearse and play back the movie, the soundtrack, the emotions. You can smell the old familiar smells, feel the old familiar pain, the tugging at the heartstrings. During the long seasons of growing up, we usually laid back and remembered, as we do now, best friends, first loves, broken hearts, and the others, who said what to whom, what they thought of you, what I secretly thought of them, what I am thinking of them now.
Maybe the only way really to prepare for your high-school reunion is to give yourself plenty of credit for the intervening years. Write your own report card, the kind you always deserved, with the grades: 5 for generally satisfied, E for extraordinary, I for improvement, B for the best that you could do, Inc for incomplete because it's not over yet. Keep this hidden in your mental pocket, next to your pictures, and then, when the reunion is over, hang on to your report card, smile at everyone, promise to keep in touch, and go home. Happy in the warm afterglow of friends and a new found treasure of memories.
-rm







